That’s why this matters so much.
Over the last 48 hours, I have been as angry as I have ever been. As sad as I have ever been. And as anger pushed me to the brink, it was actually Charlie’s words that pulled me back.
Utah Governor Spencer Cox speaking at a news conference, as FBI Director Kash Patel looks on.Credit: AP
Right now, if I could, I need to talk to the young people in my state, and all across the country. Young people loved Charlie, and young people hated Charlie. And Charlie went into those places anyway. And these are the words that have helped me.
Charlie said: “When people stop talking, that’s when you get violence.” He said the weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. The only way out of the labyrinth of suffering is to forgive.
Welcome without judgment, love without condition, forgive without limit. He said always forgive your enemies, nothing annoys them so much.
A few months ago, Charlie posted to social media: “When things are moving very fast, and people are losing their minds, it’s important to stay grounded. Turn off your phone, read scripture, spend time with friends and remember internet fury is not real life. It’s going to be OK.”
A makeshift memorial is set up at Turning Point USA headquarters after the shooting death of Charlie Kirk.Credit: AP
He again said: “When you stop having a human connection with someone you disagree with, it becomes a lot easier to commit violence.”
He said: “What we as a culture have to get back to is being able to have a reasonable disagreement where violence is not an option.”
To my young friends out there – you are inheriting a country where politics feels like rage. It feels like rage is the only option.
But through those words we have a reminder that we can choose a different path. Your generation has an opportunity to build a culture that is very different than what we are suffering through right now. Not by pretending differences don’t matter, but by embracing our differences and having those hard conversations.
I think we need more moral clarity right now. I hear all the time that words are violence. Words are not violence – violence is violence. There is one person responsible for what happened here, and that person is now in custody and will be charged soon and will be held accountable.
Yet, all of us have an opportunity right now to do something different.
I want to thank my fellow Utahns. Bad stuff happens, and for 33 hours I was praying that if this had to happen here, that it wouldn’t be one of us. That somebody drove from another state, somebody came from another country. Sadly, that prayer was not answered the way I hoped for.
Utah is a special place. But it did happen here. And it was one of us.
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But I want you to look at how Utahns reacted the last two nights. There was no rioting. There was no looting. There were no cars set on fire, there was no violence. There were vigils and prayers and people coming together to share the humanity.
That, I believe, is the answer to this.
We can return violence with violence. We can return hate with hate. That’s the problem with political violence – it metastasises, because we can always point the finger at the other side. At some point at we have to find an off-ramp, or it’s going to get much, much worse.
These are choices that we can make. History will dictate if this is a turning point for our country. But every single one of us gets to choose right now if this is a turning point for us. We get to make decisions, we have our agency.
I desperately call on every American – Republican, Democrat, liberal, progressive, conservative, MAGA, all of us – to please, please, please follow what Charlie taught me.
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