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Neale Daniher, the champion footballer who coached Melbourne and became the courageous figurehead of the battle against motor neurone disease, has died.
Australian football figures and politicians including Prime Minister Anthony Albanese paid tribute to the 65-year-old. AFL chief executive Andrew Dillon said the sport was “heartbroken”.
Daniher’s death was confirmed on Monday, just a fortnight before the King’s Birthday match between Melbourne and Collingwood which has become synonymous with his FightMND charity and Big Freeze fundraiser.
Late on Monday, some of Daniher’s close friends and colleagues met at the MCG to speak.
While they had known today’s news had been coming for a while, former Melbourne captain David Neitz said it still hit hard.
“We’re a bit shocked because he always bounces back… (but) you could sense it [his disease] was starting to really take hold,” Neitz said.
“He’s just been a phenomenal person to be around, to learn from.
“The giving attitude that he’s got, the selflessness…he’s inspired an army of people to take up the fight and they’ll continue to fight for him.
“The bloody beast has won this battle today but the battle’s going (to) continue … and Neale’s famous words are ‘play on’.”
Daniher will be honoured with a state memorial service, Premier Jacinta Allan said.
”Right now, my thoughts and love go to Jan and the family, and I know the thoughts and love of all Victorians will be going to the Daniher family as we hold them in our hearts today,” Allan said.
Allan said Daniher would be remembered for his “incredible contribution” to AFL, and to striving to find a cure for MND.
Daniher was named Victorian of the Year in 2019 and Australian of the Year in 2025 because of his advocacy, trying to find a cure for the disease he labelled “the beast”.
The Daniher family released a statement, outlining their pride in how he took on his fight against MND with a “cheeky grin and a sharp sense of humour”.
“We’re heartbroken to share that our much-loved husband, Dad and Poppy, Neale Daniher, passed away at home, surrounded by his family,” the statement said.
“From day one, Neale was a fighter. His determination was unmatched – choosing every day to find opportunity where others might see only challenge, and taking the fight to the Beast with everything he had.
“Even in the toughest times, he kept pushing forward, determined to land as many blows as he could against his toughest opponent, all with a cheeky grin and a sharp sense of humour that never left him.”
AFL boss Dillon pointed out that Daniher guided the Demons to a grand final.
“The passing of Neale is a devastating loss not only for everyone fortunate enough to know him, but for everyone in our community for the selflessness that he represented,” Dillon said.
“Neale was a brilliant player in his time on the field with Essendon and when injuries cut short his playing career, he was passionate and outstanding coach that guided Melbourne to six finals series.
“But his contribution to wider Australian life was simply incredible in the way he put himself at the forefront, despite the challenge of his own MND diagnosis, to raise awareness of the disease, champion fundraising efforts and search for a cure that he knew would likely not help him, but may help many thousands of other Australians in the future.”
Educated at Assumption College in Kilmore, where he established a mighty reputation as a schoolboy footballer, Daniher was the most talented player in one of the sport’s most famous families, although a knee injury cruelled his playing career with Essendon.
One of 11 Daniher children raised at Ungarie in central NSW, he was zoned to South Melbourne (later to become Sydney) but played his first VFL game for Essendon in 1979 after a complicated trade saga also involving his older brother Terry.
He won the Bombers best and fairest in 1981, at the age of just 20, despite suffering a serious knee injury in the final round.
Such was his talent and leadership, the Bombers named him their captain for 1982. But he sadly struggled to overcome the injuries and never got to lead the team onto the field. In fact, he did not play a game for the next three seasons as the Bombers won back-to back premierships in 1984-85 with Terry Daniher as skipper.
In total, he added just 16 games to his career tally in the nine seasons after 1981 for a total of 82 across 12 seasons, the last of which was in round 22 of the 1990 season, when he famously took the field alongside Terry and their younger brothers Anthony and Chris. It was the first and only time four brothers had played in the same team at the highest level, although the quartet did appear for NSW in a State of Origin game earlier that season.
Following his playing days, he became an assistant coach to Kevin Sheedy at Essendon, and then had a similar role at Fremantle before landing the senior job at Melbourne for the 1998 season.
A popular figure among Demons players and fans, he coached the club for 10 seasons, taking them to the 2000 grand final, when they lost to Sheedy’s powerful Bombers line-up.
Demons president Steven Smith said Daniher “was a man of action not words”.
“His courage transcended the football field, and his determination inspired an entire country,” Smith said.
“Neale was not driven by personal motivation, he was driven by helping others, right until the very end.”
Essendon president Andrew Welsh said Daniher will “forever be a beloved Bomber and is one of the most remarkable people our game has ever produced”.
“Neale Daniher came to Windy Hill in 1979 as one of the most gifted young footballers in the country,” Welsh said.
“What followed was an 82-match playing career defined as much by courage in the face of injury as it was by brilliance on the field. He captained the club, won a Crichton Medal, and earned the respect of teammates and opponents who knew they were watching something rare.
“While we never got to see the full measure of what he could have been as a footballer due to persistent injuries, it was his impact on others that truly defined him.
“His diagnosis of Motor Neurone Disease in 2013 would have broken most people. Instead, in the face of adversity, Neale chose to fight, not just for himself but for the thousands of Australians who would come after him.”
Brad Green, the former Melbourne player and recently club president, cited Daniher’s favourite line: “When all is said and done, more is said than done.”
“We will play on,” Green said on social media.
Former Demons ruckman Jeff White said Daniher had been his “second dad”.
“He would always say: ‘Health is your wealth’. You’ve left an amazing footprint on so many people, your legacy will live on forever,” White wrote on X.
Daniher took a very public stance in his fight against MND after his diagnosis by launching the FightMND charity and its Big Freeze fundraiser – which exploded in popularity since its first incarnation more than a decade ago.
The FightMND movement was started the year after Daniher’s diagnosis in 2013.
Daniher joined forces with two other passionate campaigners – Dr Ian Davis, who was diagnosed with MND at age 33, and Pat Cunningham, the husband of Angie, who was also fighting the disease.
“United by the same devastating reality, these three strangers met for the first time in a little cafe in Hawthorn. But they weren’t meeting to find comfort in their shared sorrow. They came to take the fight to MND and, together, came up with a plan to make it happen,” a blurb on the FightMND website says.
“In November 2014, FightMND was born.
“A small, humble organisation of three, two of whom had a terminal illness. They often joked that it wasn’t the most sustainable business model.
“But their vision was clear. They would refuse to let MND remain in the shadows. They would push for better funding, better research and real progress.”
Daniher is survived by his wife Jan and their adult children Lauren, Luke, Ben and Bec. Lately, as his ability to communicate became compromised because of his illness, Bec became the leading campaigner and voice of MND.
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